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The Art of Noticing

VII Ox Forgotten, Self Remains I am home. The moon rises, as the sun sets. Ox and rope, all forgotten. There never was an Ox outside of myself. Perfect freedom Perfect joy Just sitting On a recent September day, my husband asked if I’d be interested in going to The

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Wedding Season, Divorce, and Selfless Love

“So… you’re getting married….” Long ago my keen paralegal suggested I host a webinar series by that title, as she’d observed how divorcing people were often shocked to learn about the rights and responsibilities they’d taken on when they said “I do.” Of course, it’s more hopeful (and a lot

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Beyond Advocacy: The Consilium Consultant Difference

Recently, I’ve read a number of posts written by divorce coaches eager to describe their services. Their reflections made me realize the importance of distinguishing Consilium Consultants from divorce coaches. Divorce coaches listen and share experiences; Consilium Consultants deliver guidance So what exactly is it that Consilium Consultants do? As

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Valentine’s Day Thoughts, and All Kinds of Love

Valentine’s Day often centers one kind of love — romantic love — as if it’s the measure of all the rest. But the Ancient Greeks understood something we sometimes forget: love takes many forms. In All Kinds of Love, a call back to a post I first wrote in 2015,

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Saying Yes to Saying No

Of course, Bruce Springsteen found the words and wrote the anthem for these times. And the searing pain of his musical indictment is gut wrenching.

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You can never go wrong with Amsterdam

Photo: Rembrandt’s Night Watch Arriving at the Schiphol airport in Amsterdam we saw a sign:  Welcome to the Netherlands. We have more bicycles than people. Watch out when you hear ‘tring, tring’.  Aside from possible accidents, what might the impact of all those bikes be? Turns out it’s positive: human

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Keep Calm and Carry On

Photo: Yorkshire Sculpture Park-  Barbara Hepworth’s The Family of Man If you are wondering why our journeying took us to Dublin, Berlin, Leeds in the UK, and Amsterdam, let me explain the context.  When we received an invitation to my grand-nephew’s bar mitzvah in Leeds, we decided to plan a

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Ich bin ein Berliner

Photo: Eastside Galleries Arriving at the airport in Berlin, we immediately spotted a kiosk where we could purchase multi-day tickets to Berlin’s transportation system – its trains, subways, and buses.  If you know the board game, Ticket to Ride, it’s like that, but in real time. Immediately, it felt so

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Top of the  Morning to You!

Being a native Bostonian, Dublin and surrounding towns were the ancestral homes of many of my peers growing up. So I have some  familiarity of Irish culture, and curiosity about the humor, the poetry, the wit, the writing, and traditional Irish music. We spent some of our time in Dublin

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